Reflections On Marriage

I’ve been thinking about relationships lately.  Sometimes do you get on well with someone instantly?  I will admit that the first time I saw Kevin online, I liked what he wrote and the photo he had.  Poor guy had to figure out who I was because there were no photos to guide him.

We have been married for 15 years now.  And I would say I am in love with him as I ever was.  Or maybe in a deeper way than we first met.  I am SO PROUD of him for going a new job and getting the posting he wanted.  I  have been looking at some of the slideshows he has done and think they are great.

My anxiety is still jumping high, I would say..  Whenever I see something new I tend to just calm up.  And now I need to get checked by a doctor again because of new problems that have cropped up.

I know that there are times I could have died during my time in Scotland and married to Kevin.  But he always helps me and I lean on him for some things as he does on me for others.

When you first come together there is a period of adjustment. And that’s EVERY couple, not just us.  So you have to work out, between the two of you, what you want to do and how life will work out through the thick and thin.  

TREASURE

For people in a relationship, the best thing to do is not “give in” to each other and end up feeling defeated by it and it could even turn to anger or disgust and hatred if you think you are the only one that compromises.  Remember to compromise.  And enjoy your time together, because you never know how short or long it will be.