Expectation in life

When you have expectations not only the ones you put on yourself, but the ones others believe have on you.  Fact is, you don’t know what somebody is thinking of you, until you get them to tell you.

I think I’ve said before that although we were together, I didn’t understand what Kevin was doing before we left the house. He needs five or more minutes to leave the house – He told me he had a  few things to do.

Fact is, Kevin was seeing multiple things he thought were needing to be completed before we left the house.  I was only thinking of getting out in time!  I knew the stuff that needed doing would be done!  

One thing I have realised is that I put myself under a lot of pressure by expectations on myself.  Sometimes they are my own ideas, but other times they can be what someone is ACTUALLY thinking or what I believe they are thinking.

However it comes, expectation whether external or internal, the attention behind it may be misunderstood and cause great harm and upset or vice versa,   Just because you think it means something, if you’re not sure it’s always best to check.

TREATING 

The words or actions of others nay be  misunderstood.  I would hope that I could set my expectation in a great way.